lifescripts // what-ifs

Don’t know what to write in your online dating profile? Try this.

Still trying to “find your voice” as a writer? That’s not how it works.

If you were the best in the world at what you do, how would you behave?

Everything is marketing.

Don’t “write blog posts” or “launch products.” Create little miracles.

I want be the kid who dances like a total dork & lights up the world.

What is a “good” writer, anyway?

7 guidelines for writing emails that people actually want to read.

How to get angry people to calm down & be cool.

How to write to someone you admire & become their BFF. (And why maybe… you shouldn’t.)

The ultimate guide to naming your “thing.”

Tired of waiting? Great. Start creating.

Why I want to be a “Daymaker.”

33 prompts to unlock new blog posts & stories that need to be told.

Got one blog reader (your mom?) Or ten? Or fifty? Here’s why you are a “big deal,” no matter what your audience size may be.

10 sexy & adorable ways to give your partner some love.

Warning: Do not read this if you enjoy clinging to excuses that prevent you from making art, moving forward & doing wonderful things.

How to politely say “no” to a ridiculous, unreasonable request.

How to write a ridiculously sexy (but totally classy) note to your sweetheart.

The 7 emails that nobody wants to receive — and how to answer each one with love.

Fear Choice vs. Love Choice. Which will you choose?

10 of my favorite first date questions.

Trying to describe your delightful new project — and drawing a blank? Start here.

Read this when you can’t remember who you are, what you do, why you do it — or how to talk about it.

Yet another way to write your own bio.

50 ways to be ridiculously generous — and feel ridiculously good.

You’ve got a video interview in ten minutes time. Here’s how to nail your message, feel great & shine.

Need to write a bio? Like, right now? Use this.

Don’t know what to blog about? 88 pieces of fill-in-the-blank inspiration.

10 of the best possible “worst case scenarios.”

Can you chat with a friend? Then you’re really good at sales.

21 mantras for people who are ridiculously, painfully, excruciatingly overwhelmed.

How to be more eloquent & witty.

What to say & do when the worst-case scenario comes true.

How to have a fun & fascinating conversation with anyone.

I spent an hour with “The Oprah Whisperer.” Here’s what I learned.

30 confidence vitamins to pump you up.

How to get fewer emails.

I hate writing! 3 words that (usually) mean something… else.

How to practice Asteya — non-stealing of others’ time — in your work & communication.

30 mantras for people who are afraid of “missing out.”

Screw the sales pitch. Write a love letter.

30 mini-love notes for Valentine’s Day… or any day.

5 ways to write a blow-your-mind manifesto.

How to say “no” to everything ever.

The value of Vacation Mind.

The most annoying question, ever.

The World of Possibility Card. (Send to someone you love.)

If you really knew me, you’d know… (The ultimate conversation starter)

Desperately seeking a mentor? Read this.

7 mantras for shy people & moments of wobbly confidence.

How to get noticed in a crowded, noisy online universe.

50 ways to say “you’re awesome.”

How to choose your “next big thing.”

How to gather testimonials from clients, customers and fans.

100 alternatives to the question, “So, what do you do?”

It’s not crazy.

How to deliver a meaningful compliment.

15 ways to make an excellent first impression.

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