I fell in love with Oscar Wilde in my early twenties — and while I adored his plays, his poetry & his essays, it was his witty comebacks & quips that stole my heart.
Not everyone can be Oscar — believe me, I’ve tried! — and not everyone is gifted with the ability to whip out the perfect turn of phrase on the spot. But we can all learn to be more concise, colorful & memorable communicators.
Like Oscar, we can find joy in crafting our everyday conversations — and we can find solace in being understood, even in the most difficult confrontations.
I’ve corralled some of my best and brightest scripts, tips & communication how-to’s, for your perusal.
Oh, and whatever you’re aching to say? Just say it.
Scripts, Tips & How-To’s …
ϟ DO. NOT. REACT. Tips for surviving & mastering confrontation — in business & in love.
I partnered with Dr. Tina Tessina — REDBOOK magazine’s Dr. Romance! — to whirl out some heart-centered advice for difficult conversations, unexpected revelations, breakups, breakdowns & confrontations of every kind. Solid, centering stuff. READ IT >
ϟ 9 Combat-Ready Comebacks
Witty, pithy responses for pushy sidewalk fundraisers, nosy relatives, and people who use the word “gay” as a pejorative. Memorize ‘em. Customize ‘em. Walk tall, and rise above it all. READ IT >
ϟ 12 (More!) Combat-Ready Comebacks
More ferocious & firm responses for people who bemoan & criticize their bodies (or YOUR body), goons who mock your dietary preferences & dolts who describe things that are “bad” as “retarded.” READ IT >
ϟ Lifescripts for Lovers
L’amore! You’ll find scripts for a bevvy of romantic (and not-so-romantic) scenarios, including fresh ways to ask “Do you like me?” and say “I don’t like you like that,” “I don’t like you like that (anymore),” “I love you and that’s final” and more. READ IT >
A couple of How NOT To’s …
ϟ 5 reasons you’re getting REJECTED…and how to start hearing more HELL YESes! & HALLELUJAHs!
You wrote, but never heard back. You heard back, but it wasn’t good news. You called, but nobody answered. Roll through these pointers to discover why you (might) be getting the cold shoulder —
and what to do about it. READ IT >
ϟ How to be annoying & actively repel opportunities.
I YEARN for you to have everything you want. I’m ROOTING for the world to say YES to your needs. That’s why you should read this post. Immediately. READ IT >
ϟ How NOT to write a sales page
For all you entrepreneurial crusaders … this one’s for you. (And it’s kinda hysterical.) READ IT >
And of course, script packs!
Need to announce your new business identity to friends & family — and ask for client referrals, without sounding desperate?
Looking for a pro-active way to rake in reviews, praise & precious testimonials?
Want to extricate yourself from a prior commitment, without seeming like a flake-ola?
I got you covered. And then some.
Hope over to my SHOP & explore my series of script packs — and a few free tools, to boot.

