The “secret” to being semi-famous on the Internet — & getting everything (else) your lil’ heart desires

 

The “secret” to being semi-famous on the Internet . . .

is to release unmistakable content — consistently & courageously

AND

to make a concerted effort to get your work in front of established audiences.

The “secret” to getting your work in front of established audiences . . .

is to make friends with bloggers, editors & content curators in high places.

The “secret” to making friends with bloggers, editors & content curators in high places . . .

is to be charming, genuinely enthusiastic, and patient.

AND

to offer something of value, before you make a request.

The “secret” to offering something of value . . .

is to know what makes you undeniably valuable.

The “secret” to knowing what makes you undeniably valuable . . .

is the work, the tension & the mystery of life.

BUT

you can start by tracking the things that people consistently THANK YOU for, and then cross-check those streams of gratitude with the things you LOVE doing.

The “secret” to figuring out what you LOVE doing . . .

is to do a LOT of things, pay close attention to the subtle flickers of your soul, and rule out your NOs with alacrity & vigor.

The “secret” to ruling out your NOs . . .

is FAITH.

Faith that every NO you deliver means somebody else gets an opportune YES.
Faith that there is enough fame, money, attention, almond croissants, sex, kisses & kombucha tea for you, your competitors & your allies.
Faith that your mettle is more than enough.
Faith that even if you crash & burn, you’ll be more than OK.
Faith that you’re a genius (congratulations!) simply by actively staying in LOVE with your work.

And the “secret” to actively staying in LOVE with your work . . .

is to make it your life’s ambition & highest priority to add to the LOVE in the world.

The End
(& you’re welcome)

 

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Comments

I love this–it’s so very on point. I also think that it’s important to genuinely want to make friends with people, not just make connections for the purposes of doing business. “Friendship” that is really just a “you scratch my back, and I’ll scratch yours” proposition feels smarmy.

Dearest Alex,
You know I inhale everything you write, right? It fills my lungs with hope and joy. Thank you again for your generosity with your wisdom, wit and True Self. I had not seen Plan Z before! It does sound kinda awesome. I think I would be a homeless street minister, blessing passersby and offering healings for $1 or a latte. Awesome. Love, Lisa

Hee hee! I love this! Every bit I was like YES and then the next yes was louder than the prior! You rock so. And so does your ma. Please let her know that we indeed get the puppy and my husband is in as deep love with him as much as I am :)

This is excellent – I can’t wait to see your next e-book.

Thank you so much- I needed to hear this encouragement today!

This is some kick ass encouragement! Thank you, thank you, thank you. I especially forgot the part about UNMISTAKABLE CONTENT. I will be bookmarking this for rainy days. Oh look! It’s raining now.

thank you for all of this–the most gentle, loving encouragement to be a good, sharing, and productive citizen of the world.
I’ll take your word that there really are enough almond croissants in the world.

Love.

Thank you Alexandra.

Excited to find you today via Corinne Bowen! :) I couldn’t have penned it so well, but this is exactly what it feels like as I do my own PR and communications. You have to give before you get. Each of those givings opens up a little more of who you truly are and what you truly do. It’s about helping, about giving others ease and love, and lets be real everyone, including high profile bloggers and leaders want to be helped, to know they are doing well, and to feel the love. They are expected to give a lot and to ask something from them without offering something isn’t going to help their mission – it just takes from them. So to start by giving keeps the energy flowing endlessly. <3 Thanks for writing and I'll be following you now!

Holy crap, you’re pretty awesome. Let’s be friends, k?

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